Community involvement

Yesterday, the President of our congregation's Sisterhood called me. She asked if I would like to serve on the Sisterhood board. I said no.

We've been members of our congregation for three years. Technically, I was a Sisterhood member the first year for free. They have a few times sent me bills for dues, which I've never paid. I've never attended a Sisterhood event. Candidates must be pretty sparse for them to call and offer me a board position, which makes me feel guilty for not taking it. I believe I made the right decision for me, but I'm not sure how to resolve that guilt.